How to Impress a Guy

How to impress a guy? What are the things that will make the biggest impression on a man?

Well these are good questions and I will do my best to give you some useful answers in the limited amount of space that a short article like this permits me.

1. Don’t try to impress him

Firstly, I will be a bit counterintuitive – you should never try to impress a man. When you are around someone you like you should not attempt to do anything to make him like you.

This means that you shouldn’t try to do things like be funny, overly agreeable, too friendly, do nice things just for him, try to dress up for him or dazzle him with a list of achievements.

All of these will make you come across as unnatural and possibly desperate. This leads on to the second point.

2. Be yourselfDesirable woman

It may sound like a cliché, but the old adage that you should just “be yourself” has a lot of truth in it. When you act “normal” around a guy, you are far more likely to impress him than if you suddenly transform into a completely different person – that is obviously not you.

There is one proviso that I have to add to this point though. This is that you have to be the best version of you that you can be. There is no point in being dull and boring and expecting a guy to be knocked head over heels for you. It just isn’t going to happen.

This means that you need to be consistently working on your own self-improvement (in the various areas of your life) so that you are becoming a better and better version of the person you truly are – every day.

3. Like and appreciate who you are

Once you have put in the effort to be the best you can, you have to like and appreciate that person. There is no point in doing your best and then comparing yourself with others and focusing on where they are better than you.

The facts are that you are who you are at this moment and you have the choice to either accept this person or reject her. Guys are impressed by women who like themselves despite their faults – you don’t have to be perfect to get them to sit up and take notice of you.

However, guys get highly frustrated by insecure women who have extremely low self-esteem. Such women are hard work and are usually not fun to be around.

4. Be confident

The next step in how to impress a guy is that you need to be confident. Confidence is extremely attractive and indicates that you would be a great long-term partner.

When you are confident you expect people (especially guys) to like you and to be successful at whatever you do. In short, you have a positive attitude and don’t get thrown by rejections and setbacks.

Don’t mistake confidence for arrogance though – this is a big turn-off.

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5. Be happy and fun to be around

One of the things that men most like is a woman who is happy and fun to be around. These qualities are far, far more important than physical looks in determining whether a man can see you as long-term girlfriend or wife material.

However, if you are unhappy, moody, depressed or just generally not fun to be around, a guy is not going be impressed with you enough to want you in his life. It’s as simple as that.

6. Have a life of your own

If you want to impress a man, a big way to do this is to have a life of your own – one that is going somewhere and that you enjoy greatly. This tells a man that you are not a needy woman who is going to suck the life out of him. On the contrary, you will have something to add to his life by being around him.

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Okay so those are the key things that you need to do to impress a guy. Take action on these things and I’m sure you’ll have more success in impressing men.

And if you would like to learn a lot more about this topic, please take a look at my other articles which are also relevant:

How to Get a Guy to Like You

What Men Find Attractive

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In this book I go into detail about the 10 qualities that you need to display to make yourself appear the most attractive that you can be to a man. I also tell you about how to find the best men, attract them, and then make them fall in love with you for a lifetime.

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