Where to meet men is a vital factor that you as a woman must take into consideration in your search for the love of your life.
For if you don’t frequent the kinds of places that the type of man you are interested in hangs out, then you are not likely to meet and get into a relationship with him.
And if you rarely get out and put yourself in positions to meet new people, then you will seriously limit your chances of meeting that someone special.
The bottom line is that you need to put yourself in high probability situations to give yourself the best chance.
Having said this though, you also need to stay true to yourself and what you enjoy in life. There is absolutely no point is trying to meet a man in some environment that you hate being in, as you are not likely to present your best side if you are not having fun.
Furthermore, any man that you meet is likely to want to keep going there after the two of you get into a relationship. So don’t go to a monster truck rally if it does not interest you.
Go To Places Where High Quality Men Hang Out
If you are looking for a proper relationship with a high quality man, then I suggest that you go to places where such men are likely to be found. This is not likely to be in some bar or club, where guys tend to be heavy drinkers, rowdy, immature and probably just want to take girls home for the night.
Go to places that are more cultured, such as art exhibitions, photography classes, professional organizations and conferences that relate to your career/business, personal development seminars, the parties of highly cultured people that you make friends with, and church.
Even your local gym or health club is likely to attract a much higher quality of man than the hottest nightspot in your town.
Although men in these places may not be going there specifically to meet a woman, they are much more likely to desire a long term relationship than the average guy that you would meet at the bar.
The Place You Work is Less Than Ideal for Meeting Men
You might have noticed that I did not suggest looking for men at the place you work, in these ideas on where to meet men.
There is a very good reason for this and this is that if you get into a relationship with a man at work and you have a nasty breakup, it is very hard for you to escape from him. And it could get quite awkward if you have to continue to deal with him on a professional basis.
Furthermore, he could spread some malicious gossip or share secrets about you that could be embarrassing and even compromise your continued employment there (eg. He could tell your boss something bad that you said about him). Don’t say I didn’t warn you!
Of course, there could very well be opportunities there to meet great men with similar interests to you. But all I’m saying is that you take a risk by pursuing such opportunities. I think there is a lot of wisdom in the old adage, “Don’t dip your pen in the company ink.” However, I leave it up to you to make your own judgment call on the matter.
Okay, that’s the end of this article on where to meet men. I hope you have gained a few new ideas to help you find that special someone.
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