From Flirting to Forever Review by James Taylor
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In this From Flirting to Forever Review, I’m going to tell you about a popular book for women on the practical process of how to attract the man of your dreams into your life, right from the moment you first see him until you have the ring on your finger and beyond.
From Flirting to Forever is a downloadable book written by bestselling dating and relationship author Kara Oh. It is targeted towards single women who are looking to meet the man of their dreams and make him fall in love with them for a lifetime.
This is a nuts and bolts lesson on what men are looking for in a woman and exactly what you need to do to attract that special man into your life and get him hooked on you so that he never wants to leave.
As the title suggests, it is a book about flirting with men – but not flirting in the sense of getting a man worked up sexually so that he just wants to sleep with you, as some other authors teach. No, it is about how you get a man’s attention and keep it over the long term by having fun with him. And no, not THAT kind of “fun” 😉
In Kara Oh’s own words:
“ … I’m going to lump everything you will learn to do to attract a man’s attention as flirting. But I’m going to show you how to take flirting to a whole new level. This is not about getting a man into bed, it’s about getting you “wed,” or whatever your long-term relationship goals are.”
Her approach centers on developing what she calls your feminine grace and feminine confidence, which are two qualities that are extremely attractive to men. This enables you to present the best and most attractive version of yourself to men.
She discusses how society has forced women into their masculine mode of operating in the world and because of this they turn off men, often without realizing it. This is why when you operate from your core femininity as she teaches, you will separate yourself from almost every other woman out there – even if you are not the most physically attractive one.
The author goes into exactly how to interact with men right through the attraction process, in such a way that you maintain the respect of men and draw in only the ones who are:
• Looking for a relationship
• Worthy of respect themselves
• A good fit for you
She shares her proven strategies on how to weed out those men who are players or just not right for you over the long term. Specifically, she discloses exactly how to carefully qualify men and pick up on the red flags as you are moving through the attraction process.
The great part about this is that you don’t ever need to risk scaring men off by cross examining them, making them feel like they’re at a job interview, or asking prying questions during your dates.
She shows you how you can get the information you need to make an informed decision about particular men and still have a fun at the same time.
My Verdict
Overall, my verdict on From Flirting to Forever is that it is an amazing book which every single woman needs to read as they seek to find that someone special. The reason I say this is that the advice that Kara Oh provides is so different from that of most other dating and relationship authors, and so bang on the mark at the same time.
From my position of a man I can agree that most women DO NOT exude the feminine grace and feminine confidence that she advocates. Furthermore, women unconsciously make many mistakes with men as a result of societal conditioning that basically turn men off or make them only want to sleep with the women and no more.
Tragically many, many women are currently in despair because men pay them little or no attention, or are only interested in them for ONE thing. Yet the reason for this is not the men, but how these women are acting towards them.
What Kara Oh shows in the book is how to give men what they want and need, and at the same time get what you want and need too.
Therefore, from this prospective I can wholehearted recommend this book as one that will radically improve your attractiveness and success with men – if you take it to heart and integrate the lessons into your life.
If you are serious about your dating and relationship success with men, this is one book though that I don’t think will let you down.